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Surjeet Bahra

Surjeet Bahra, BACP

Counsellor - Anxiety and Relationship concerns

United Kingdom

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Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 107916
Experience
15 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom
  • Attachment-based work
  • Cognitive behavioural tools
  • Solution-focused goals

About Surjeet

Surjeet Bahra is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and has 15 years of experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, low self-esteem, motivation issues and confidence. Surjeet also supports those dealing with grief, trauma and substance problems.

She approaches sessions in a down-to-earth way. Conversations focus on what is troubling the person right now and on practical steps they can try between meetings. Surjeet uses methods that help people understand how their past relationships shape current feelings and behaviours, and how thoughts can be adjusted to reduce unhelpful patterns.

Clients can expect straightforward explanations of techniques and opportunities to practise new skills in everyday life. The work can include looking at attachment patterns, trying cognitive approaches to reframe thinking, and setting small, achievable goals to build momentum. Sessions aim to be clear and focused rather than abstract.

Surjeet pays attention to relationship dynamics such as communication, blame and trust, and she helps people handle issues like codependency, commitment worries, control problems and family strain. She also addresses eating and sleeping difficulties, intimacy-related concerns, fertility-related stress and the emotional effects of loss.

Many people come for help with specific problems such as addictive behaviours, bipolar-related coping, or feeling stuck after big life changes. Surjeet combines listening with active techniques drawn from attachment work, client-centred ideas and cognitive behavioural practice to help people make practical changes.

Approaches used in online sessions

Surjeet draws on attachment-based work and cognitive behavioural approaches in her practice. Attachment-based work looks at how early relationship patterns influence current reactions and helps people notice and change repetitive ways of relating. Cognitive behavioural techniques focus on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing practical ways to shift them, which can help with anxiety, low mood and coping with life changes.

She also uses client-centred ideas that give people space to explain what matters most to them while the therapist listens and reflects. Finding the right mix of methods is part of the process and she will work collaboratively to decide what best fits a person's goals, preferences and day-to-day needs.

If you are considering online sessions, check the current session options before booking to confirm formats and practical details. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments around busy days, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. The therapist will discuss what approach and session pattern suit the person's schedule and aims.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, low self-esteem, motivation, grief, trauma, addictions and related issues listed in her profile.

What is her therapy style like?

She keeps sessions practical and conversational, focusing on current problems and small steps people can try between meetings.

How long has she practised?

She has 15 years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and relationship issues.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients as noted in her profile.

How are sessions arranged and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session.

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