Rev. Jacklyn McNeil, LCPC, LPC - Therapist in Oklahoma

Attachment based methods
CBT and DBT tools
Client centered listening

About Jacklyn

Rev. Jacklyn McNeil is an LCPC and LPC licensed in Kansas and Oklahoma with 25 years of counseling experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, depression, and related concerns such as addiction and compassion fatigue.

She approaches sessions from the view that the person is the expert on their own life. She listens for strengths and practical options, then helps people try small steps that may reduce distress and improve daily functioning. Conversations focus on concrete problems and realistic goals rather than jargon or long theoretical lectures.

Her methods draw on attachment-based ideas, client-centered listening, cognitive behavioral strategies, dialectical behavior tools, and emotionally-focused work. Those methods are described and used in ways that aim to make next steps clear and manageable. Sessions often include learning specific skills, examining unhelpful thinking, and practicing new ways of relating to others.

Jacklyn has worked across many issues beyond anxiety and depression, including grief, parenting strain, caregiving stress, body image and intimacy-related concerns. She also supports people dealing with chronic illness, codependency, communication problems, and life transitions.

People who choose her typically find a straightforward, practical style. She invites clients to set goals, try approaches, and review what helps. To begin, a short questionnaire and scheduling step are used to match needs and plan the first session.

Therapeutic approaches and working online

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early and current relationships shape expectations and reactions in close relationships. It can help when fear of rejection, abandonment, or difficulty trusting others affects social interactions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches practical skills to test and change unhelpful thinking patterns that feed anxiety and avoidance.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, try methods, and adjust plans together. This collaborative process helps identify which strategies feel most useful for a person's goals and lifestyle.

Confirm current session formats before booking to know exactly how sessions are arranged. Many people benefit from online sessions because they can fit appointments around work, caregiving, or travel. Online sessions can make it easier to have shorter check-ins, avoid commuting time, or choose a quieter environment. Licensed professionals can use the same therapeutic techniques online as in person, with attention to pacing and comfort while trying new skills.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuse DepressionCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGrief Intimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issues Communication problems Control issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgiveness Guilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivity Infidelity Isolation / loneliness Jealousy Life purpose Men's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issues Mood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCD Panic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues Workplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma, Kansas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, depression, addiction, grief, parenting strain, and related issues listed on her profile.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She focuses on clear, practical conversations that identify strengths and small steps. The approach emphasizes collaborative problem solving and skill building.

How much experience does she have?

She has 25 years of professional counseling experience working with a wide range of concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds LCPC and LPC credentials and is licensed in Kansas and Oklahoma. Her practice is based in Oklahoma.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions scheduled and paid for?

Session cost varies with location and services. Sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What do I need to do to get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.