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Tommy Fletcher

Tommy Fletcher, LICSW, LCSW

LICSW LCSW - Anxiety and Relationship Concerns

New Mexico

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Credentials
LICSW, LCSW
License
LICSW, Washington / LW00004883; LCSW, New Mexico / SWB-2023-0367
NPI
1659425619
Experience
10 years
Languages
English
Location
New Mexico
  • ACT and CBT
  • DBT skills
  • Emotion-focused work

About Tommy

Tommy Fletcher is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) in Washington and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in New Mexico with ten years of direct practice experience. He works with people who face stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem concerns, depression, addictions, relationship and family matters, grief, sleep and eating struggles, and career or life-change stressors.

He uses a mix of approaches drawn from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), and client-centered work. In sessions he listens for what matters most to each person and links practical strategies to those priorities. He encourages people to notice unhelpful patterns and to try small experiments that change day-to-day responses.

Tommy has an extended background in social work roles going back to the late 1980s, including work within the legal system. That history informs how he navigates complex situations and systems with clients. He has worked with adults, teens, groups and couples over the years.

Sessions are scheduled during day and evening hours Monday through Thursday. Cost can vary by location and uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. Sessions are conducted in English and international clients are not accepted at this time.

To begin, a prospective client completes a short matching questionnaire and then schedules a first session. Tommy focuses on clear steps people can use between meetings to notice progress and manage immediate stressors.

He aims to make sessions straightforward and practical, helping people build skills for managing anxiety, repairing relationship patterns, and coping with life transitions.

Therapeutic approaches and how online work can fit

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small committed steps toward those values, even when anxiety is present. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks down how thoughts, feelings and behaviors interact and teaches practical techniques to test and change patterns that keep anxiety and avoidance going. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers concrete skills for managing intense emotions, improving distress tolerance, and building better interpersonal effectiveness.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and typical reactions and then try out methods to see what fits. That collaborative stance means techniques may shift as the needs and goals become clearer.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm the current online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time that otherwise interrupts routines. For people practicing exposure for social anxiety, remote sessions can offer graded opportunities to speak, present, or try social tasks while keeping the session focused on learning and skill use. Working this way keeps the practical parts of therapy - skill practice, homework, and reviewing progress - central to each appointment.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

Washington, New Mexico

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Tommy commonly help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression, addictions, grief, relationship and family concerns, sleep and eating problems, and career or life changes.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He listens for what matters to each person and combines practical strategies with reflective conversation. Sessions often include skill practice and small experiments between meetings.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has ten years of direct practice experience and earlier social work roles dating back to 1987, including work in the legal system.

Which credentials and location apply?

He holds WA LICSW and NM LCSW credentials and practices in New Mexico.

Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not accepted at this time.

What session formats are available?

Current session formats are not specified here; please confirm the exact options when booking.

How does cost work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Tommy FletcherLICSW, LCSW

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