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Alessio Tonato

Alessio Tonato, BACP

BACP counsellor - anxiety and relationships

United Kingdom

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Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 392692
Experience
7 years
Languages
English, French, Italian
Location
United Kingdom
  • Attachment-based work
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Somatic awareness

About Alessio

Alessio Tonato is a BACP counsellor with seven years' experience in the United Kingdom. He offers talk therapy aimed at personal and professional growth. He lists work with stress, anxiety, relationships, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem and depression among his focus areas.

Alessio uses conversation to help people notice patterns in their feelings and behaviour. He encourages clients to look at how past relationships and attachment can shape present reactions. Sessions aim to make options clearer so people can choose differently in their daily lives.

His approach draws on attachment-based ideas and somatic work to connect emotions with bodily experience. Mindfulness practices appear in sessions to help with stress and recurring anxious thoughts. This mix is presented simply, with practical ways to try between meetings.

Alessio describes a dialogic style - a back-and-forth that explores ways of being rather than a one-sided lecture. He helps clients identify habits that no longer serve them and test small changes. Conversations can cover relationship patterns, communication problems, guilt and shame, and issues such as abandonment, codependency or fear of commitment.

Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian. People are invited to consider how therapy might fit around work and life demands. To begin, the site asks users to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session using the online booking flow.

How his approaches translate to online work

Alessio draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early relational patterns affect current relationships. This approach generally focuses on understanding connection styles and how they influence communication and closeness.

He also uses mindfulness techniques to help people notice recurring anxious thoughts and reduce reactivity. Mindfulness here means simple, moment-to-moment exercises to slow down automatic responses.

Somatic elements help link bodily sensations with emotions, which can be useful when stress and anxiety show up physically. These practices often involve paying attention to breath, tension and grounding in the body during conversation.

Alessio approaches choice of method collaboratively. He will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most useful, and adapt sessions as understanding grows. Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work rather than a one-time decision.

Session formats are not listed explicitly in the biography, so please confirm current online options before booking. Online sessions can help fit therapy into a busy week, make it easier to join from different locations and allow shorter or longer check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt pacing and exercises so therapy can be practised between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyMindfulness TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, French, Italian

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression and related concerns such as abandonment, codependency and commitment issues.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He describes a dialogic, conversational style that looks at patterns in feelings and behaviour and tries practical changes in day-to-day life.

How much experience does he have?

He has seven years of experience working as a counsellor in the United Kingdom.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is BACP registered and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions arranged and paid for?

Session cost varies by location and work uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session through the site.

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