- ACT methods
- Attachment focus
- Guided journaling
About Shirley
Shirley Rocks is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with four years' experience. She works with adults on stress, anxiety, grief and related concerns, and lists social anxiety and phobia among her focus areas. Sessions are presented in a straightforward way and she offers options like poetry and journaling when helpful.
Shirley uses simple, practical approaches to help people talk through what feels overwhelming. She draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-based ideas and client-centred listening to help clients notice patterns and try new ways of responding. Conversations are paced to what the client needs and proceed without pressure.
Her background includes training with the Mid Ulster Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapy and with Cruse Bereavement, where she developed experience supporting grief and loss. That experience informs her work with bereavement, trauma and emotional transitions.
When writing is useful, Shirley offers guided poetry or journaling exercises. These are optional and described plainly in sessions for people who prefer non-verbal ways to express difficult feelings.
Shirley works with a wide range of concerns including sleep problems, addictions, relationship difficulties, self-esteem, panic and post-traumatic stress. She also notes additional focus areas such as attachment issues, body image and workplace stress. Sessions are conducted in English and she accepts international clients.
How Shirley uses therapy approaches online
Shirley works with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) in simple, practical terms - helping people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck and choosing actions that matter to them. ACT can be helpful for anxiety, avoidance and values-based problems.She also draws on attachment-based ideas which look at how early relationship patterns affect current connections and emotional responses. This can help with loneliness, trust issues and difficulties in close relationships.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Shirley will talk with the client about goals, preferences and what feels useful, and then decide together which methods to try. The therapist frames this as a collaborative process rather than a fixed plan.
The biography does not specify which online formats she uses, so it's important to confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also allow guided activities such as journaling or brief in-session exercises that fit around daily routines.
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Primary focus
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Therapeutic approaches
Experience
4+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns does she help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, grief and related issues including social anxiety and phobia, panic, sleep problems and relationship strain.
What is her therapy style like?
She uses a gentle, client-centred approach drawing on ACT, attachment-based ideas and emotionally-focused methods to help clients talk things through and try different responses.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has four years of experience working with adults and has training experience with bereavement and counselling organisations.
What credentials and region are relevant?
She holds BACP accreditation and works from the United Kingdom.
Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?
Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.
What session formats are offered?
The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.
How much do sessions cost?
Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin a first session?
Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling an initial appointment.